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About

Mia Wenjen, Pragmatic Mom, PragmaticMomMy oldest had a very bad year in first grade.

She was in a combined Kindergarten/1st grade which is a tough curriculum challenge as is, given the range of abilities at that age, but her teacher had a serious illness that went in and out of remission. The result was a lot of absenteeism. We’re talking substitutes for substitutes. It was not good!

By the time a long-term substitute was hired, May flowers were in bloom and my child was behind. Waaay behind! It took 2 1/2 years to identify the holes to catch her up and I went crazy trying to figure out the best phonics system, home school math curriculum, etc. Luckily I had a lot of mom friends who were educators and they helped me enormously.

This blog was born from these efforts. From that bad year, the lesson that I learned is that it’s my job to make sure my child learns whether her education happens at home, through a tutor or supplemental class, or at school. Yep, the buck stops here. I accept that. (Of course, getting wonderful teachers makes my job easier and I’m very lucky most years!).

Rule #1 to myself: I am responsible for my children’s education not their teachers or their school.

What is strange is that I don’t live in an inner-city. In fact, I live in the #3 best places to live in the United States according to CNN.money: “Residents rave about the top-ranked schools, and parents are excited for the new high school opening this fall… It should be: The school cost $197 million…”

So the corollary is: no matter how great your child’s school or teacher is, you still need to monitor progress and do some heavy lifting at home.

 

Another thing happened to me that caused this blog to be birthed.

I love Newbery award-winning books. One day after reading Because of Winn Dixie by Kate DiCamillo (one of my very favorite books in the world) with said oldest, I handed her another DiCamillo Newbery Honor Book, The Tiger Rising. How was I to know this book was depressingly sad akin to The Grapes of Wrath but in a slim book with large-ish font size? Oops! Sorry, kid! And yes, you don’t have to read it. This prompted another valuable lesson to me.

Rule #2 to myself: Read the book before I hand it to my child. Or get a recommendation from her peers, teacher, or librarian.

It sparked a realization that I love children’s literature more than adult fiction and now I had an excuse to indulge!

With three kids and a very helpful hands-on husband, I am able to chronicle our journey called parenting through my blog which focuses on education, parenting, and children’s literature.

And so my blog is born from lemons squeezed painfully into lemonade.

education: from my oldest child’s bad first-grade year.

parenting: from 3 kids now about to enter 7th, 4th, and 2nd grade.

children’s literature: from handing over the wrong book to my kid and rediscovering my love of KidLit.

 

I am a Tiger Mom Failure.

I am Asian and my kids are a crazy mash-up of Asian-y cultures: 25% Japanese (4th generation), 25% Chinese (3rd generation), 50% Korean (2nd generation). I can not and do not make them practice their instruments 3 hours a day. Heck, I’m lucky if they practice that much in a week, and the truth is painfully told, sometimes that is the combined amount they practice in a week.

But what is more exciting to me than having them play classical music on a stage is watching them self actualize. To see them discover that “I may hate math but I am actually good at it.” or “I’m great at Rhythm Gymnastics but I’d rather play soccer.” Or even “I love to read chapter book series of 1) anthropomorphic animals at war with one another AND 2) fantasy adventure books of characters with special powers and 3) realistic fiction; however, I find science-y time travel books confusing.”

Rule #3 to myself: My kids came out fully formed but not kiln-fired. I can only smooth out the rough edges that would otherwise hurt people. My job is to get them to self-actualize and find their purpose and passion in life. I provide options. I find solutions. I drive them like crazy to anything they want to do. But I don’t dictate their future.

At the end of the day, it’s their adventure and I’m just the cab driver to enable and keep them safe. It’s my job to fulfill my own hopes and dreams and not to impose that burden on my child. My husband and I remind each other of this often.

Raised by Wolves.

As for me, I was raised by wolves in Southern California (or at least my husband thinks so) and attended a very mediocre public school system. I took the 2nd plane ride of my life to land in Cambridge, Massachusetts to attend Harvard, I discovered that it took me and my S. Cal friends two years to play catch up here on the east coast amid the prep school, magnet school, and really outstanding public school kids. We vowed that our kids would go to decent schools so that they would have the pleasure of hitting the ground running when they went to college. I’m keeping you posted on how that is going!

I started a company in college with two friends that morphed into an international talent agency placing marketing and creative professionals. Did you catch that? It’s a fancy name for a staffing company. Realizing that I couldn’t read my own company’s financial statements, I did a pit stop at The Anderson School at U.C.L.A. to earn my M.B.A. in Entrepreneurial Marketing.

A few start-ups later, I stayed home for 7 1/2 years as a SAHM (stay-at-home mom). When my youngest went to preschool, I became a WHAM (work-at-home mom). Then I discovered blogging which is where SAHM hits WAHM — you work all the time and you barely get paid. What is the definition of addiction again? I think I need someone to remind me…

 

My 3 Kids Could Not Be More Different

Grasshopper and Sensei is my oldest and is now in high school. She’s the one juggling the soccer ball on the top left corner. Her special gift is her ability to get along well with others and her vast innate creativity.  She’s a kind and generous person who makes friends quickly and keeps them forever. She also gifted in her ability to forgive.  When she turned 10, she realized that she wants to attend the Rhode Island School of Design after visiting the museum.  She actually uses up dozens of markers and a case of paper a month because she draws every single day.

PickyKidPix is my middle child and what a middle child she is (and in middle school as well)! She has expressed two goals: play soccer for Stanford and become a billionaire. She is best described as (hmmm… diplomacy required here): driven, fearless, and a force of nature. At 10-years-old, she gets hired out as a mother’s helper, an organization assistant, a dog walker. She is also her sister’s art agent. Not surprisingly, she sold nearly all the art on her sister’s blog, making a 20% commission. You can ask her about simple versus compound interest and what a franchise business is. She an expert on both topics after realizing she only was making 1 cent per quarter from her savings account, and that she can’t own a Staples Superstore, dashing an early dream of hers.

My youngest is pictured here outdoors. Normally, you would find him in front of a screen. He would like to develop video games and has vast experience as a gamer. He finished all levels of Angry Birds when he was barely in Kindergarten. Now he’s in elementary school watches YouTube videos to master making different types of cannons on Minecraft. As the youngest, he’s independent and low maintenance. If he becomes a successful game developer one day, I won’t have to feel guilty for all the screen time he seems to inveigle. Here’s hoping!

Our year in 2014 via video and photos!


They keep me and my husband busy because these are some of the extracurricular activities they do during the year (thankfully most are seasonal): soccer, tennis, lacrosse, volleyball, hip hop, swimming, surfing, fishing, horseback riding, golf, flute, guitar, Spanish, Mandarin Chinese, basketball, skiing, karate, kickboxing, snowboarding, art, and cooking. I am tired just thinking about it. Thank goodness for carpools!

My Kids Are All Grown Up Now

It’s shocking to look around at my children and realize that they are all grown up now. The thing about parenting is that you get very little feedback on how you are doing as you parent your children for two decades. It’s a leap of faith that you are doing all the right things to raise good people.

I’ve always focused on two things for my kids: raise confident children and encourage them to take risks. It’s funny how food has played a large part in this. My husband and I have raised foodie children but in that, they take risks by trying new food from around the world. It wasn’t always this way. Their first solid food was pho (Vietnamese noodle soup). They went through phases of tolerating, then hating, then loving various kinds of Asian food.

So how did my kids turn out?

The Days Are Long But The Years Are Short

My oldest, Grasshopper and Sensei, is an Industrial Design student at Rhode Island School of Design (2024). If you want to see her photography or industrial design, follow her Instagram or visit her website. For anyone interested in art college, I’ve posted all our art college visits here.

My middle daughter, PickyKidPix, continues to live up to her blog name. We did official visits at 33 colleges with her but she only liked one of them. Luckily, she will be attending this college in the fall, Northwestern University (2025). She and her sister started a clothing company in high school, indigo clothing co., and sold over $100,000 worth of merchandise over four years. She will be studying mathematical modeling applied to social sciences.

My son is still in high school. He’s a blend of his two sisters. You can see his art on his Instagram. He likes to box. We did a series of videos on Exotic Fruit Challenges.

 

Let’s Get To Know Each Other

I’m known for my book lists here which I create myself and have guests create for me.

In my spare time, I can be found boxing, on hikes with my dog, or practicing yoga.

In addition to a Board of Director position for Aquent, I am a co-founder of Read Your World (formerly called Multicultural Children’s Book Day), which celebrates diversity in children’s books and lands on the last Thursday of January, except when it falls on January 27th which is Holocaust Remembrance Day. In that case, we celebrate on the last Wednesday of January.

Thank you for reading my blog. I hope you will come back and that we will get to interact. I’m easy to find on social media, and I invite you to connect with me on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, LinkedIn, Instagram, and YouTube. I will follow back!

My books:

We Sing From the Heart picture book cover reveal of The Slants Simon Tam

We Sing from the Heart: How the Slants®  Took Their Fight for Free Speech to the Supreme Court

  • Junior Library Guild Gold selection

 Amazon / Signed or Inscribed by Me

Cover Reveal: Boxer Baby Battles Bedtime!Amazon / Signed or Inscribed by Me

Food for the Future: Sustainable Farms Around the World by Mia Wenjen, illustrated by Robert Sae-Heng

Food for the Future: Sustainable Farms Around the World

  • ⭐ Starred review from School Library Journal!
  • Junior Library Guild Gold selection
  • Massachusetts Book Award Long List
  • dPICTUS 100 Outstanding Picture Books of 2023
  • Chicago Library’s Best of the Best
  • 2023 INDIES Book of the Year Awards Finalist
  • Green Earth Book Award Long List
  • Nautilus Silver Winner, Nonfiction Children’s Picture Book
  • Imagination Soup’s 35 Best Nonfiction Books of 2023 for Kids

 Amazon / Barefoot Books / Signed or Inscribed by Me

cover for Sumo JoeChanging the Game: Asian Pacific American Female Athletes by Mia WenjenAmazon / Scholastic / Signed or Inscribed by Me

The Elusive Full Ride Scholarship: An Insider’s Guide

How To Coach Girls by Mia Wenjen and Alison FoleyAsian Pacific American Heroes

55 thoughts on “About”

  1. Valerie Daniel says:
    October 18, 2012 at 8:33 am

    Pragmatic Mom,
    Your “contact me” tab isn’t working and I want to contact you. You have a great blog that I look forward to reading more.Thanks!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      October 20, 2012 at 9:36 am

      Hi Valerie,
      Thanks so much!!! Fixed it! Some kind of weird glitch.

      Reply
  2. Nicolas says:
    November 28, 2012 at 6:23 pm

    Dear Pragmatic Mom,

    I love your blog! I guess what appeal to me in your personality is the mixing between entrepreneurship and literature. That’s the kind of cocktail I want for my children too. I’d like to submit a story to you also about entrepreneurship and getting kids to love reading. Where shall I send?

    Kind regards,
    Nicolas.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 28, 2012 at 11:47 pm

      Hi Nicolas,
      My email address is PragmaticMomBlog@gmail.com .

      Reply
  3. Dee says:
    November 29, 2012 at 9:47 am

    Mia, I had somehow never read your about page! And it makes me worship/envy/love you all the more!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 1, 2012 at 9:14 am

      Hi Dee,
      I had several “About” pages which is probably why you missed this one. Thanks for the kind words!

      Reply
  4. Yasmin Waring says:
    December 1, 2012 at 12:56 pm

    Dear Mia,

    I’ve been following you on Twitter for a while now. We’ve connected there and I have no qualms retweeting your sensational posts. As the daughter of a mathematician and a very hands-on-and-involved-but-not-overly-intrusive-new-aunt I love learning about books and practices that I can share with my own niece and the other children in my life. We’re a beautifully mixed family of African-American and Vietnamese and I’m humbled by the unconditional love and example set by my Asian family.

    I also love your personal story and think you are extraordinary! Thank you for sharing so much with us.

    I do have a favor to ask.

    My interactive children’s ibook–Maxine Machine–is now available for download on the iBookstore and is receiving great reviews and ratings from kids that I don’t even know. The underlying themes cultivate a natural love of science (or at least are meant to). I would love it if you could review it and tell me what you think. I can send you a promo code for a free download if you email me at max@maxinemachine.com.

    Regardless, you’re a phenomenal woman that I love learning from and will continue to follow!

    Take care,

    Yasmin Waring

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 3, 2012 at 12:40 am

      Hi Yasmin,
      Sure! I’d love to check it out. Can you send me a copy? Please email me and thank you for your kind words!

      Reply
  5. Matt says:
    December 4, 2012 at 7:52 pm

    Hi Mia,

    Great website! Really appreciate all the trouble you go to in order to promote reading and education for children!

    I have written a children’s picture book entitled “The Zoo’s Annual Piggyback Race” that I thought I would let you know about. If you are interested you can watch a full video of the story with sound effects on the link below.

    http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/hedgebury/the-zoos-annual-piggyback-race

    I am actually currently trying to promote the book and use crowd-funding as a means to publish the story. Am not sure if you are able to help but any assistance would be greatly appreciated. (Even if not I would love to hear your thoughts after viewing the 3 min video!),

    Thanks again!
    Matt

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 4, 2012 at 9:56 pm

      Hi Matt,
      Lovely illustrations and I always love a rhyming story! Very nice job! My recommendation would be to go straight to an ebook and do the hard copy print run later when you’ve raised more money. As a self published picture book, yours is one of the best I’ve seen and I’ve seen a bunch! Good luck!

      Reply
  6. Mandy says:
    December 8, 2012 at 4:48 pm

    Hi!
    First off, I’m glad to see the material you put out.. tech, learning, good gifts, fun learning, savvy shopping.

    You came to my attention because I recently joined a new company, ATOMS Express Toys. You may already know about ATOMS and our Kickstarter Campaign (since you’re already following us), but just in case… ATOMS are “smart” blocks that integrate with all kinds of toys (like legos) and build in tech to help kids “make things that do things” straight out of the box (like making stuffed animals talk when moved or vehicles that can be controlled by an iphone or being able to blow up a lego building on command) and do all of it pretty much straight out of the box.

    I found you because I’m on a hunt for savvy ladies to weigh in on ATOMS. You see, we hear from a lot of guys and dads about our product (via lots of tech scene interest), but know that moms and women are just as interested in good toys, technology, and fun learning tools for kids.

    I’d love to hear your thoughts on what we’re creating. It feels like we could also be a really good fit for your interests. At the very least, I think you’ll love our kickstarter video. ATOMS is just that cool. (http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/atoms/atoms-express-toys) Let me know if you’d like to find out more about ATOMS.

    ~Mandy

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 10, 2012 at 10:46 pm

      Hi Mandy,
      I can’t remember how I heard of Atoms but this is exactly the kid of toy I am looking for. It sounds perfect for my son and other boys we know that like STEM toys that are open ended. Can you send me a toy to try out when you get closer to selling them? I’d love to review them!

      Reply
  7. Jane says:
    December 15, 2012 at 2:37 pm

    Hi Mia – I came to your blog page after hearing about you from Noreen and also after meeting a mom who is a SAHM who want to be a SAHM/WAHM. Your honest approach to writing is wonderful and I really appreciate your comments on kids not being “kiln fired”. So true, and a good reminder for me. Keep writing and I’ll keep reading!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 16, 2012 at 10:15 am

      Hi Jane,
      Noreen has told me a lot about you! Nice to meet you finally! Thanks so much for coming to my blog!

      Reply
  8. Redpeffer says:
    January 13, 2013 at 2:33 pm

    It’s good to hear your honesty-sounds to me like you have it about right. We make mistakes, but the secret is learning from them. Sometimes I feel like I’m blundering about, accidentally coming across things that work-parenting is a tough gig, but I love it! I too am a SAHM turned WAHM-only way I can make things happen the way I want them too. Best of luck and nice meeting you.

    Reply
  9. Michelle Cusolito says:
    January 24, 2013 at 12:14 pm

    Wow. Found you through the comment challenge (Well, you hopped over to my blog via the challenge, I think, and I hopped here…) I love your blog. Hopping over to FB and Twitter to follow.

    Reply
  10. Elle Yi says:
    February 20, 2013 at 8:10 am

    Hi Mia

    I am Elle who is a mom of three korean-american kids in Croton, NY. Of course, I am a Korean.

    I would like to say you are not a Tiger Mom Failure. Certainly, you are a Tiger Mom Success.

    I have observed a lot of great attributes and values from your mom’s parenting via your website and posts. That makes your blog very unique for your readers.

    Elle

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      February 21, 2013 at 10:48 am

      Thanks so much for your kind words Elle! You totally made my day. By the way, my college friend is Chinese American and lives in Croton-on-Hudson too. Denley Chew. I wonder if you might know him and his family? He has 3 kids too! It would be such a small world if you know them too but you never know! The world is a small place!

      Reply
  11. Stephanie says:
    February 24, 2013 at 12:14 pm

    Hi Mia:

    Great — and useful — site you have. I’ve listed it on my site (a blog my 2nd grade daughter and I keep to review and discuss books). Your rule #1 is spot on. I too have learned that how much my daughter does (or does not) read is entirely my responsibility and correlates directly to how much time I spend overseeing her reading activities. I look forward to perusing your site more!

    Stephanie
    http://abooklistgrowsinwestchester.blogspot.com/

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      February 24, 2013 at 1:11 pm

      Thanks so much Stephanie. How fun to keep track of the books you and your daughter read. I’m excited to check it out!

      Reply
  12. Jenny Seiger says:
    March 26, 2013 at 5:46 pm

    Hi! My name is Jenny Seiger and I am the author of Why Is Mommy So Tired? I found you on Pinterest and would love to be added to your community Children’s Book boards if you are interested. I look forward to hearing from you!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      March 27, 2013 at 2:21 pm

      Hi Jenny,
      Sure! Sending you invite now.

      Reply
    2. Pragmatic Mom says:
      March 27, 2013 at 4:07 pm

      You got it Jenny! Hopefully, third time is a charm! I know we are both having some technical issues!

      Reply
  13. Gerry Gaston says:
    April 12, 2013 at 12:19 pm

    Hi! I am an author, loving ferret master and collector of Pirate Adventure children’s books. I have a growing collection of books on my Pinterest board @newsblog59. I would love to be added to your “Best Books for Kids” board, if you would approve.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      April 12, 2013 at 5:05 pm

      Hi Gerry,
      Sure thing!

      Reply
    2. Pragmatic Mom says:
      April 12, 2013 at 5:05 pm

      Hi Gerry,
      I just sent you an invitation. Please let me know if you don’t receive it.

      Reply
  14. Gerry Gaston says:
    April 12, 2013 at 6:17 pm

    Yes, I received the invitation and I accepted it, thanks!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      April 19, 2013 at 8:16 am

      Hi Gerry,
      Great!

      Reply
  15. Tracy Rose says:
    April 18, 2013 at 4:11 pm

    Hi Mia,

    Healthline is interested in contributing a guest post to pragmaticmom.com. We would be open to contributing any blog that would be of interest to your readers. Healthline bloggers have been featured on a variety of sites including:

    Washington Times: communities.washingtontimes.com/neighborhood/tango-mind-and-emotion/2012/aug/10/how-healthy-choices-easy/
    Natural News: naturalnews.com/036515_diabetes_strawberries_prevention.html
    Patch.com: strongsville.patch.com/blog_posts/where-and-what-to-eat-in-cleveland-to-beat-the-winter-blues

    Please let me know if you have any questions. Thank you in advance for your consideration.

    Warm Regards,
    Tracy

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      April 19, 2013 at 8:52 am

      Hi Tracy,
      I’m not sure if there is a match since your blog focuses on health and mine on children’s books but thank you for enquiring!

      Reply
  16. Sharron Thornton says:
    May 6, 2013 at 4:25 pm

    Hi! I came across your site and I love it! I also “liked” your Facebook page and I sent you a “like” request for my page.
    For thirty-five years I taught Elementary Education, grades first through fourth. One of the special times of each school day was right after lunch recess when I read a novel to my children. It didn’t take the kids long to get quiet and settle down for they were anxious to hear where the next chapter would take them. I soon realized that books were doors to imagination for all children at any level of learning.
    When I retired, I missed all of those young faces and their emotional involvement with the characters and story lines from the books I read to them. So, I decided to work on an illustrated novel with my son, Raymond Thornton, who is an artist. Thus, Upir and the Monster Gang was born, a world of monsters, mad scientists, zombies, ghosts, vampires and all things that live in the night. Besides the Upir series, I am working on several other children’s novels.
    I read your blog about your child being put into a split class. That type of situation can be very harmful to children if the class doesn’t have the right combination and the right teacher. For two years I taught a split 3rd/4th class. I loved it and the children prospered intellectually and emotional. When I was asked to take the class, I informed the principal I would be happy to teach it if two criterion were adhered to. One, I wanted the bright 3rd grade achievers and the middle to low 4th grade achievers. Also, I wanted no more than 12 children in each grade level. That way the students were not too far apart educationally.
    I also had the 4th grade students help the 3rd graders whenever they didn’t understand a concept. I don’t think these lower academic achievers were ever asked to help other students before. The interaction of these two groups of kids was amazing. It wasn’t too long before I saw self esteem rise along with academic achievement from both groups.
    At first the parents were very apprehensive about having their child in a split class but by the end of the year, both groups scored grade level or higher on their state tests. This also held true the second year I taught the split class.
    I am sorry to hear that your child had such a bad year during her early educational life.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      May 7, 2013 at 8:34 am

      Hi Sharron,
      Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment! My daughter’s split K/1 was a disaster. I don’t think K/1 is a great split in general since there is such a wide variation in academic ability especially in terms of reading. I would guess that 3/4 might be better. The kids weren’t really placed on ability either.

      How exciting to write and publish a book! I think teachers and librarians make great children’s book authors because they’ve read a lot and they know what kids like!

      Reply
  17. Amy Palmer says:
    June 6, 2013 at 2:32 pm

    A kindred spirit!! I’m new at Pinterest & Twitter; begrudging about FaceBook and texts, but I love what I am seeing in your blog and on your boards. I’ll be back to watch and read more of what you and your crew are doing!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      June 11, 2013 at 9:22 am

      Hi Amy,
      So lovely to meet you! I love meeting other adults who love children’s lit! Yes, a kindred spirit! Welcome and thank you so much for coming to my blog and checking out my Pinterest boards, where, I warn you, I pin excessively on children’s books.

      Reply
  18. Joanne Viola says:
    November 3, 2013 at 8:27 am

    How fun to meet you! Especially that you are also from the Boston area :)) Thank you for following me on twitter as it gave me the opportunity to also find you! Look forward to reading your posts!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 3, 2013 at 8:56 am

      Hi Joanne,
      So nice to meet you too! Looking forward to your tweets and posts as well!

      Reply
  19. Jennifer Bardsley says:
    March 13, 2014 at 1:59 pm

    I just found your blog! Our missions are very similar although our snooty colleges are on different coasts. I’m curious if you’ve heard of the term “Afterschooling”?

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      March 16, 2014 at 9:34 am

      Hi Jennifer,
      Tell me more about “Afterschooling”; no I haven’t! I’d love to learn more!

      Reply
      1. Jennifer Bardsley says:
        March 16, 2014 at 11:56 pm

        Afterschooling is when parents take ultimate control of their kids’ educations, and yet still send them to a brick and mortar school; public or private. You can Afterschool to help fix a deficit, like if your child is behind in reading or math. Or, you can Afterschool to help a child advance, which is especially important in schools without gifted programs. Other reasons to Afterschool would be to teach about world religions, or subjects your school might not have like art, music, a foreign language or geography.

        A lot of parents do this already and mistakenly say they are “homeschooling” over the summer or on the weekends. If you said this to an actual homeschooler they’d get miffed. Homeschoolers have a whole bunch of things to deal with that Afterschoolers don’t. It’s really quite different.

        But… homeschooling curriculum can really help with Afterschooling. Singapore math books, Dreambox Math, the Jim Weiss Great Hall Production Cds, Story of the World, Snap Circuits etc.; all of that is great. It’s really hard though, for Afterschoolers to enter the homeschool curriculum world and not fall prey to all of the ultra-religious curriculum out there too. The options can be confusing.

        The message I want parents to know is that even if your local school district isn’t great, even if you can’t afford private schools, even if homeschooling isn’t the right choice for your family (it isn’t for mine), you can still make sure your kids have a top notch education. There are tools and resources out there to help round out your child’s education at home. Afterschooling can make a difference.

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        1. Pragmatic Mom says:
          March 23, 2014 at 7:53 am

          Hi Jennifer,
          Oh, thanks so much for that clarification. We are definitely Afterschoolers. My kids do Singapore Math and Daily Word Problems during the summer. My son plays with Snap Circuits and is learning the computer program Scratch. My middle daughter is learning to cut and style hair as a Afterschooler. My oldest is developing her art portfolio that same way. We don’t go to church, so I am using books to teach them world religions too. We are also learning world languages this way.

          We are definitely Afterschoolers!! But we don’t do it in a really rigorous or disciplined way. I just try to sneak it into little gaps here and there and I bribe my kids to do math during the summer. I guess that still counts?

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  20. Jennifer Bardsley says:
    March 23, 2014 at 2:26 pm

    Absolutely! I bet if you added up all of the extra hours of learning your kids were getting, the number would be huge. 🙂

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    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      March 28, 2014 at 5:20 pm

      Thanks Jennifer,
      It’s funny to think about what kids learn at home (my kids claim to learn how to swear by listening to my husband and I drive) … but I hope the good stuff will stick!

      Reply
  21. Dana Wilson says:
    April 10, 2015 at 10:00 am

    Hi Mia,
    Just came across your blog indirectly on Twitter. I applaud the time you’ve invested in looking for quality literature with multi-cultural characters! I am a former homeschooling mom who now writes and publishes literature-based curricula. And I’m ALWAYS looking for book suggestions that reflect the diversity we observe in creation. Can’t wait to dig in and see what you have already discovered.

    Blessings to you and yours.

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    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      April 13, 2015 at 8:14 pm

      Thanks so much Dana! I’ll be posting on diversity books for kids all year! I’m making a bunch of lists which will be compiled into a book for the next Multicultural Children’s Book Day on January 27th 2016.

      Reply
  22. Jane Allen says:
    May 31, 2016 at 7:55 am

    The first tip just got me hooked:

    “Rule #1 to myself: I am responsible for my children’s education not their teachers or their school.”

    And, I have learned so much from it. If my child’s education is not going as planned, the challenge is mine to fix. I’m not going to look for anyone to blame. Thanks so much for pointing this out. I’ve found it helpful.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      May 31, 2016 at 6:19 pm

      Hi Jane,
      I’m so glad that it helped you. Thanks for taking time to read my posts.

      Reply
  23. Suchitra says:
    July 1, 2017 at 11:31 pm

    Love, love, love this About Page. Thank you for being so open, up front, and funny. I enjoyed reading about you and your family, the history of this blog, and your amazing journey throughout.
    I was introduced to your blog by Patricia (won’t reveal last name but I hope you know about whom I am talking) and you will be hearing from me on a different context soon. I will be following you on Twitter and hopefully, get to message you directly instead of this open space. Thank you.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      July 15, 2017 at 3:38 pm

      So nice to meet you Suchitra!

      Reply
  24. Leah Serlin says:
    October 21, 2018 at 8:24 am

    Hi, I love your page and have found it very helpful. I have a High School Senior applying to art colleges now. I was wondering where your daughter landed? Thank you

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      October 21, 2018 at 4:52 pm

      Hi Leah,

      She is taking a gap year and then going to Rhode Island School of Design. They gave her a one-year deferment.

      Reply
    2. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 4:49 pm

      Hi Leah,
      She is going to Rhode Island School of Design next fall. She is currently taking a gap year. RISD was great about deferment.

      Reply
  25. Lisa Salyer says:
    April 14, 2019 at 7:26 pm

    Hi Mia,
    My name is Lisa and I am doing research for diversity in Children’s Literature for my MLIS. I was wondering about a list of children with disabilities. This book list is finally growing and I wondered if you would consider adding it to your list of wonderful list? Just something to think about…

    Reply
    1. Lisa Salyer says:
      April 14, 2019 at 7:27 pm

      P.S. – I hope I didn’t miss it in the 300+

      Reply
    2. Pragmatic Mom says:
      April 14, 2019 at 8:07 pm

      Hi Lisa,

      Here are a few of my lists in that category: https://www.pragmaticmom.com/2018/10/physical-disabilities-in-kidlit/

      https://www.pragmaticmom.com/2016/03/wheelchair-books-kids/

      https://www.pragmaticmom.com/2017/07/wheelchairs-in-childrens-books/

      Reply
  26. Valery L Larson says:
    May 22, 2023 at 2:00 pm

    Hi Pragmatic Mom,

    Thanks for all your inspiration. As I work on books and book ideas it’s so encouraging to read your blog.

    Thanks a gazillion!

    Reply

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