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What to Do When Your Kid Asks 'Help Me With My Essay'?

What to Do When Your Kid Asks ‘Help Me With My Essay’?

Posted on December 23, 2020February 22, 2024 by Pragmatic Mom

It is not always usual for your children to reach out to you for help, especially when it comes to academics. So when they do, you probably want to help them and guide them in the best way possible. 

It is particularly challenging when such a request comes through during the college admission season. The good news is unlike old times, now you have access to dozens of resources from the internet. Good cheapwriting services will help to prepare the material, structure it, and format it properly. This will make it easier for your child to handle the written essay. This article will guide you through the steps you can take to ensure that your kids get the support they need for their essays, especially the all-important college application essays!

1. Offer the Right Support

According to the essay help experts at writing service EssayHub, students look for academic help because they are under pressure. So before doing anything, remember that your kid does not require you to take over the entire situation. The last thing they want is for you to micromanage their essay. Instead, show that you are available by asking what exactly they need, whether they want help with finding resources, references, or just your feedback. 

2. Make Research Into a Group Activity

Doing the literature review and finding resources can be time-consuming and stressful, especially if you are on the gun. But you should be able to make it more tolerable by gets more hands-on deck. If you are unsure which specific blog or references your kid might need, you can bookmark them for later use. You can also help them organize any documents or resources so it will be easier for them to find the right resources easily. 

3. Discuss the Arguments

Some essays require the writer to discuss both the pros and cons of the thesis statement. To make it more compelling, the student not only has to present the case for their argument but also address any counter arguments. As a parent and a third person, you will be able to offer insight into any views or evidence your kid has overlooked in the essay. By having a session discussing these arguments, you can also provide the counterarguments to make their essay sound more persuasive.

4. Help to Edit and Proofread

While your kid can edit and proofread by themselves, another set of eyes can spot any mistakes they could have missed. You will be reading the essay from a fresh perspective. It will help them identify any errors in the logical sequence or organization of the ideas. 

You will also be able to help them save time, as well as point out any corrections that would make the essay more convincing. 

5. Encourage Writing

Essay writing is not a skill that is acquired overnight. Though students are required to handle writing assignments early from school, there is no formal training given on essay writing. More importantly, writing well will help your kids develop their communicative skills throughout their lives. 

It is always recommended that parents nurture the habit of reading and writing in their kids from childhood. The more they read, the better they will write. And the more they are comfortable with writing, the more they will enjoy writing essays. 

6. Hire a Tutor

There are times when the scope of the essay might be entirely out of your expertise. So you might consider a tutor to get your kid the help they need. You could try essay writing services or hire a tutor. A tutor will be able to provide professional guidance without any emotional entanglement, which you will not be able to do as a parent. 

7. Provide the Right Learning Environment

Offering support is not always in terms of helping with homework. Instead, you can make sure that your kid has everything else taken care of so they can focus completely on their studies. If your house has a distracting environment, be sure to find them a quiet study space, away from the noises of household activities. If the kid is young, you can also use parental control to block access to gadgets or sites that would deviate their attention. You also should do your best to provide a happy and nurturing environment for your child to feel productive.

8. Take Things Lightly

It is indeed possible that they might dismiss your solutions completely even though they come to you for help. One second they might be complaining that you are not helping, and the other second they might be saying you are invading their privacy. As terrible and frustrating as it might seem, it is best to let it go. 

They will likely consider your ideas later and use them when you are not pressing them about it. All you need to do is make sure you have done all you can and let them know that you are available for any help they need.

College application essay writing is a stressful time. Sometimes, your kids just need to vent and complain. Listening without doing anything else might be exactly what they need.

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