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Picture Books about Kindness and Compassion

9 Picture Books about Kindness and Compassion

Posted on November 7, 2018April 18, 2024 by Pragmatic Mom

I’m thrilled to have author and illustrator Jen Betton here today. We met at a children’s book writing class a few years back. It was a community education class at my local high school but was special. Illustrator Jannie Ho was also in the class, working on writing picture books. It’s probably unusual, but after that class, we all were on our way to becoming debut picture book authors. (Jannie Ho has illustrated four dozen books but her debut BEAR AND CHICKEN is her first author and illustrator picture book!).

Jen has since moved away from the Boston area to Austin so it’s nice to have her here! She is giving away a signed copy of Hedgehog Needs a Hug. Please fill out the Rafflecopter at the bottom to enter.

What are your favorite picture books about kindness and compassion? Thanks for leaving a comment!

Hedgehog Needs a Hug by Jen Betton

Everyone needs hugs, even if they’re prickly. When Hedgehog wakes up feeling down in the snout and droopy in the prickles, he knows a hug will make him feel better. But none of his friends are eager to wrap their arms around Hedgehog’s prickles, and he’s too smart to fall for Fox’s sly offer. Then Hedgehog gets a surprise: Another animal in the forest is feeling exactly the same way. Luckily, both are kind and brave enough for the perfect hug. [picture book, ages 3 and up]

I discovered the heart of this story when I was trying to write the ending – and I realized I didn’t want Hedgehog to hug someone just the same as him (like another hedgehog) or someone who wouldn’t be bothered by his prickles (like a turtle). He was an outsider, and I wanted him to hug someone experiencing the same rejection – a skunk! So this became a book about empathy, about being kind to someone who needs a friend.

Kindness can manifest a lot of different ways – standing up for someone, generosity, sharing, being a friend, and there are many, many wonderful picture books out there on these themes. Here are just a few of my favorite titles about kindness.

9 Picture Books about Kindness and Compassion

9. Little Fox in the Forest by Stephanie Graegin

This beautiful, wordless story follows a girl whose toy is stolen by a fox. In the end, the girl decides to be kind to the little fox who wronged her. [picture book, ages 4 and up]

8. The Fox Wish by Kimiko Aman and Komako Sakai

A little girl finds that foxes have taken her jump rope, and they think it is the answer to a wish. She plays with them and decides to let them keep it, even though it is obviously a special toy. A very sweet story of generosity. [picture book, ages 3 and up]

7. Adrian Simcox Does NOT Have a Horse by Marcy Campbell and Corinna Luyken

There are a lot of classroom-unkindness or bullying books out there, but this one is my favorite. Chloe is very annoyed by Adrian’s claim to have a horse and loudly calls him a liar. What I love about this is that we see the whole situation from Chloe’s point of view, and we see her perspective change as she learns to appreciate Adrian. And it’s just gorgeously illustrated. [picture book, ages 4 and up]

6. A Hat for Mrs. Goldman by Michelle Edwards

Mrs. Goldman knits hats for everyone but herself, and it’s a frigid winter. Sophia decides to try to make Mrs. Goldman a hat all on her own. This is a story of kindness and perseverance – working to do something kind for someone you care about. [picture book, ages 3 and up]

5. Be Kind by Pat Zietlow Miller and Jen Hill

This book has so many examples of kid-accessible acts of kindness sprinkled throughout the book. My daughter loves to ask me about all the illustrations of people being kind in the background – pulling down books for shorter children, holding open the door, comforting a girl who broke her glasses. It’s almost a how-to book but doesn’t come across as didactic at all. [picture book, ages 4 and up]

4. Do Unto Otters by Laurie Keller

This is similar to Be Kind in that it is a how-to book, but delightfully silly and showing how what we often think of as good manners is a way of being kind to one another, and how everyone appreciates the same consideration. [picture book, ages 4 and up]

3. The Lion and the Mouse by Aesop and Jerry Pinkney

A classic story of how no act of kindness is ever wasted. I love stories where the personality characteristics take on physical form, which can allow for a fresh perspective on the situation. Jerry Pinkney brings it to life elegantly and wordlessly. [picture book, ages 3 and up]

2. Sick Day for Amos McGee by Philip and Erin Stead

A gentle tale of friends who take care of each other; it’s a picture of how we want our relationships to be.

1. The Rabbit Listened by Cori Doerrfeld

This book is about grief, but also about compassion and it beautifully models how to be kind to someone hurting.

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Jen Betton loves to draw and make up stories with her pictures. In Kindergarten she got into trouble for drawing presents on a picture of Santa, and she has been illustrating ever since. She wrote and illustrated HEDGEHOG NEEDS A HUG, published with Penguin-Putnam, and she illustrated TWILIGHT CHANT, written by Holly Thompson, published with Clarion.

She has a BA in English, and a BFA and MFA in Illustration. You can find her painting and munchkin-wrangling in Dallas. More of her work is at www.jenbetton.com

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33 thoughts on “9 Picture Books about Kindness and Compassion”

  1. Ruth Groot says:
    November 7, 2018 at 8:47 am

    I love the book Each Kindness by Woodson. You have a few titles mentioned here which I have not read yet. Thanks!

    Reply
    1. Jen says:
      November 7, 2018 at 1:28 pm

      It’s always fun to find new titles – I enjoyed Each Kindness too!

      Reply
    2. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 5:59 pm

      Thanks for entering Ruth!

      Reply
  2. John Smith says:
    November 7, 2018 at 9:02 am

    “What are your favorite picture books about kindness and compassion?” “Hedgehog Needs a Hug” has such an irresistible cover and the artist such an impressive technique. I’m not sure I’d want to own a hedgehog, but you can see why people are crazy about them!

    Reply
    1. Jen says:
      November 7, 2018 at 1:29 pm

      Thank you! I wish I lived in England so I could have a wild hedgehog in my back yard!

      Reply
    2. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:00 pm

      Hi John,
      I met Jen Betton in a children’s book writing class. I’m so glad you like her book. She is a talented illustrator and author!

      Reply
  3. gail woo says:
    November 7, 2018 at 9:08 am

    On my wishlist for my wchool library!

    Reply
    1. Jen says:
      November 7, 2018 at 1:30 pm

      Yay!! So glad to hear!

      Reply
    2. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:00 pm

      Yay! Thanks Gail!

      Reply
  4. Patricia Nozell says:
    November 7, 2018 at 9:36 am

    A wonderful list! Thanks for sharing & congratulations on your latest picture books!

    Reply
    1. Jen says:
      November 7, 2018 at 1:26 pm

      Thank you Patricia! I’m glad you enjoy the list

      Reply
      1. Pragmatic Mom says:
        December 18, 2018 at 6:01 pm

        It’s so nice to have Jen Betton here! Thanks for stopping by Jen! We are all admiring your book!

        Reply
    2. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:00 pm

      Thanks so much Patricia!

      Reply
  5. Jen says:
    November 7, 2018 at 1:31 pm

    Thanks for having me on your blog Mia! What a long way we’ve come since that class!

    Reply
  6. Deckled Edges says:
    November 7, 2018 at 3:05 pm

    Be Kind is really an excellent book!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:02 pm

      I love it too! It’s a perfect melding of illustration and words and with such an important message!

      Reply
  7. Ruth Groot says:
    November 7, 2018 at 4:25 pm

    Great list. I also love Each Kindness by Woodson.

    Reply
  8. Erik Weibel says:
    November 7, 2018 at 4:41 pm

    I LOVE A sick Day for Amos McGee! I’ve read so many really good picture books on kindness and don’t you know, I can not think of a single one right now. Well there can never be too many books on this subject!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:02 pm

      Hi Erik,
      That is such a great picture book!! Thanks for stopping by!

      Reply
  9. Nancy W says:
    November 7, 2018 at 9:50 pm

    How Full is You Bucket by Tom Rath

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:05 pm

      Such a great addition to this list. Thank you Nancy!

      Reply
  10. Amy D says:
    November 8, 2018 at 5:38 pm

    I absolutely LOVE Sick Day for Amos McGee!!!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:07 pm

      Hi Amy,
      It’s such a lovely book! It has always stayed with me. The message is so gentle and the illustrations are such a perfect blend of incredible detail and rough sort of block printing.

      Reply
  11. Natalie says:
    November 18, 2018 at 2:39 pm

    I love Bear Says Thanks by Karma Wilson and The Giving Tree.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:21 pm

      Such great classics to add to this list! Thanks for your book suggestions Natalie. This list is getting really good!

      Reply
  12. Edye says:
    November 18, 2018 at 8:17 pm

    We like Dr. Seuss books!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:22 pm

      Thanks for entering Edye. I have an issue with some Dr. Seuss books: https://www.pragmaticmom.com/2017/05/examining-dr-seuss-racism/

      Reply
  13. Bianca Munoz says:
    November 21, 2018 at 3:14 pm

    I really like the book Lovely by Jess Hong!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:23 pm

      Thanks for adding to this list Bianca!

      Reply
  14. Beth T. says:
    November 30, 2018 at 1:10 am

    I love so many of these. This year I am giving “Each Kindness” to a niece and nephew who have strong personalities and who I think will benefit from stopping to consider how their words and actions might affect other children in school. church, and even their family. It is just such a powerful book with a message that stays with the reader–regardless of age, I think.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:34 pm

      What a nice gift Beth! It will have ripple effects for years to come I suspect!

      Reply
  15. Debra Branigan says:
    December 5, 2018 at 7:45 pm

    I love Pinkney’s The Lion and The Mouse. My kids used to love The Butter Battle Book by Dr. Seuss. I don’t remember other picture books by title. It’s been a long time 🙂

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      December 18, 2018 at 6:37 pm

      Thanks for your book recs Debra!

      Reply

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