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His mom has cancer. His dad's green card renewal was denied. He lives in my town.

His mom has cancer. His dad’s green card renewal was denied. He lives in my town.

Posted on August 2, 2018April 19, 2024 by Pragmatic Mom

Last night, my daughter who just graduated from high school told me about her friend Roberto. They have been friends since 6th grade. Roberto is supposed to attend U Mass Boston this fall, but now things are up in the air.

Why?

In 9 days, his father is being deported to Guatemala. But get this: his father has a green card. His father has a steady job. His father has no arrests or misdemeanors. But his green card renewal was denied. His father is now in an ankle bracelet awaiting deportation in 9 days.

Roberto’s mother is fighting cancer. Roberto and his younger sibling are born in the United States but they are still too young to sponsor their father.

Here is the NBC Boston report: ‘Running Out of Time’: Newton Father Faces Deportation

We feel enraged and helpless. We want to help Roberto and his family. These are some of the ways to help:

Donate: There is a GoFundMe account for Roberto’s family.

UMass Boston: If anyone has contacts at UMass Amherst, perhaps there is a way for Roberto to study abroad in Guatemala with a full scholarship so that he can stay near his family. Roberto intends to stay with his family and won’t be able to pay for college when his father is deported.

Work Opportunities in Guatemala: If anyone knows of work opportunities in Guatemala for Roberto’s father, please help. You can contact me at pragmaticmomblog (at) gmail (dot) com and I will pass it along.

His mom has cancer. His dad's green card renewal was denied. He lives in my town.

My daughter’s interview with Roberto:

On May 3rd, 2018, I conducted my 7th interview that I needed for a school project on race and ethnicity. I spoke to my friend Roberto, a pal from middle school, who I hadn’t said more than a passing “hello” to for the past 4 years. We ended up chatting for an hour. His openness, genuine kindness, and devoted love of his family continue to amaze me. As of July 24, his father is being deported back to Guatemala.

Here is the interview:

Q: How is stereotypical American culture different than your culture at home?

A: Family comes first. My parents are, I wouldn’t say strict, but like, family matters a lot more in Latino culture than in American culture. I hear people walking in the halls talking about how, like, “they snuck out of the house and their parents caught them and grounded them”, and I think to myself that I can’t imagine myself ever doing that. I respect my parents a lot, so it’s really difficult to relate to that. I would like to see people respect their parents more and be grateful for what they have, especially in this community, especially in Newton.

Q: Do you think your parents are good examples of the American Dream?

A: My parents came here for a better opportunity because there was no home in Guatemala, and at the time there was violence and murder happening. They are great examples of the American dream. My dad has been working for all his life, he pays taxes and doesn’t break the law. His goal is to get a house and get land here. They came here looking for a better life, looking to start a future.

Q: Do your parents wish they could visit Guatemala?

A: My parents wish they could visit family. My dad could leave to visit, but then he wouldn’t be allowed back into the country. Right now, he has a workers permit which allows him to stay here. He’s working on getting his citizenship right now, but it costs so much money, and it sucks. Both my parents are not citizens, but me and my brother are. It definitely makes me nervous that they’re not full citizens yet, because at any time, if one of them is deported, there isn’t any way for us to stay here. Right now the biggest thing is that my dad’s workers permit expired so he had to renew it. There’s always a chance that they could randomly not renew it. We had to get a ton of paperwork together. He has to pay for a lawyer to be with him through the whole process, which is expensive. If anything goes wrong, they can just detain you right there, so it’s better to have a lawyer present. Right now, my dad is spending so much money with the lawyer, trying to further his workers permit situation. When he’s a citizen, he won’t have to worry about that. (edited for length and clarity)

At a time when he should have been only excited about graduating, Roberto was weighed down by the possibility of his dad being taken from him.

In addition to his father being deported, his mother is battling brain cancer, and is receiving treatment at Boston medical facilities.

DONATE TO HIS GO FUND ME: Keep this great family together.

Even if you don’t know him personally, please consider donating to his family in their time of need. Hopefully, from his words, you can understand that he and his family are good, hardworking people, who came to the US with a vision of hope. Please help my friend.

 

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7 thoughts on “His mom has cancer. His dad’s green card renewal was denied. He lives in my town.”

  1. maryanne @ mama smiles says:
    August 3, 2018 at 3:24 pm

    Unbelievable, and sadly not at all surprising in the current political climate. What makes me the most upset is that the deportation stories I am hearing are about immigrants like this family, who are working hard and doing their best to follow all the rules. Thanks for raising awareness.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      August 30, 2018 at 3:50 pm

      Hi MaryAnne,
      We are still waiting to see what happens to his father. My daughter said that her friend has decided to stay in Massachusetts and attend college with his mother and younger brother, even if his father is deported. He will try to sponsor his father when he turns 21 in 3 years. I told my daughter that all we can do is write to our congressmen/women which we did, and donate money. My neighbor said that she knows his attorney and that he is using a very good immigration attorney.

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  2. Caroline says:
    August 4, 2018 at 7:32 am

    Deported Guatemalans who are fairly fluent in English can find work at call centers. There are two Facebook pages devoted to this with job postings. Search under “Guatemala Call Center Community”. Most or all of these jobs are in Guatemala City. The pay is low compared to US standards but substantially better than what most there are paid.

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    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      August 30, 2018 at 3:51 pm

      Hi Caroline,

      This is a great tip and I have passed it on to my daughter to tell her friend. Thank you!

      Reply
  3. Patti Karam says:
    August 4, 2018 at 5:39 pm

    Thank you so much for sharing this story on your blog, it is also very personal for me as his younger brother is my student at HM. The school and Newton community have been remarkable with kindness, love and generosity.

    I am searching for books to have available for students/families affected 1st and 2nd hand with green cards and deportation issues. Would appreciate any suggestions.
    Thanks
    Patti

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      August 30, 2018 at 3:53 pm

      Hi Patti,
      I only know Mama The Alien/Mama la Extraterrestre by Rene Colato Lainez (Author), Laura Lacamara (illustrator). I haven’t heard what is happening with the family. My daughter says not to bug the son, her friend.

      Reply
  4. Factchecker says:
    August 5, 2018 at 12:09 pm

    I have read a number of newspaper stories about this case, including Cohen’s story at WickedLocal posted on August 3rd at 3:49 p.m. EDT. Not one of them I found says that he is a Green Card holder. Instead, the facts seem to be that he came to America illegally in 1991, and then was ordered deported after court hearings during the Obama administration in 2009. Those orders were stayed for a time. His asylum claims were also denied.

    These facts put this case in different light. Can you please confirm, and correct your piece as needed with strike-throughs?

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