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the secret life of jenny liu giveaway jean ramsden

Author Jean Ramsden Being True to Yourself

Posted on October 25, 2014May 15, 2024 by Pragmatic Mom

Please welcome author Jean Ramsden who is writing today on the importance of being true to yourself. She is also giving away 3 signed copies of her book! Please see the Rafflecopter at the end of the post to win.

 

The Secret Life of Jenny Liu by Jean Ramsden, cover illustration by Elyse Whittaker-Paek

Jenny Liu is on the move again. Except this time, she hasn’t landed at yet another Chinese-American School in California but at a public school in South Carolina. Shy, artistic Jenny wonders if she will ever figure out how to fit in amongst rowdy fifth graders and eccentric teachers with hard-to-understand southern accents. To make matters worse, the class thinks she is super smart and her piano teacher thinks she is a musical genius. With school activities that test her intelligence and an upcoming piano recital, it’s getting harder for Jenny to do what’s right—to tell the truth—especially since she knows that The Real Jenny Liu would be even more of an outsider. Or would she? [chapter book, ages 9 and up]

I sit on the board of a youth at risk organization and we’re always looking for age appropriate books to stock our community center. What I love about this book is that the main character comes from a diverse background. It’s so rare to find that, particularly in stories for youth. The Secret Life of Jenny Liu transported me back to my elementary school days. I essentially blew through the last 200 or so pages because I couldn’t wait to see what Jenny had up her sleeves with her classmates. This book begs for a series. I highly recommend for your older elementary school aged children. They will love it! Review from Germonique Ulmer

Jean Ramsden

My middle grade book, The Secret Life of Jenny Liu, is about the importance of being true. The main character, Jenny, excels at discovering the truth about her teachers and classmates, but she struggles with being true to herself. When Jenny moves from a Chinese-American School in California to a public school in South Carolina, her internal conflict intensifies. By the end of the book, Jenny finds strength in the things that make her unique and she realizes that The Real Jenny Liu is “just right.”

An Unexpected Heroine.

It is the quiet character who saves the day in my picture book, It’s Too Loud in Here! I wanted to continue this theme—quiet is powerful—in a middle grade book. I liked the idea of a quiet girl who secretly solves problems because she wants to help others. An unexpected heroine.

In The Secret Life of Jenny Liu, Jenny listens, observes and notices the details that others don’t. Through small acts of kindness, she puts an end to the classroom graffiti before anyone gets suspended, she gets the fifth-grade teachers to admit that they are sweet on each other and she helps the class soccer star play at the Fifth-Grade Soccer Game. Ultimately, Jenny is true to herself. She sees her quiet nature not as a flaw, but as a strength.

Jean Ramsden, The Secret Life of Jenny Liu

Illustration by Jabber & Jam Book’s intern Amelia Howden. @aameliagrace

The Secret Life of Jenny Liu begins with this Chinese proverb.

Shortly after I outlined the story, I received a Chinese New Year letter from friends in Hong Kong. Immediately, I began to envision the story’s main character as being Chinese. I liked the idea of a quiet Chinese girl who secretly solves problems because she wants to help others. A really unexpected heroine and one we don’t often see in children’s books.

During book readings, I ask the kids: What does it mean to be true to yourself?

Here’s what they tell me:

  • Make up your own mind
  • Be unique
  • Accept who you are
  • Follow your heart
  • Don’t be what others think you should be
  • Love the things that make you different

Jean Ramsden

I talked to a Young Writers Group about “The Secret Life of Jenny Liu” at one of Charlotte’s public libraries (@cmlibrary). Inevitably, the kids turn my question around and ask: Are the book’s events real or made up? As an author, this means: Are you writing what you know to be true?

Here’s what I tell them:

  • 99% of the story is fictional
  •  1% of personal events are included in the book
  •  I moved frequently as a child.
  • When I lived in southern VA, I took part in a whipped cream party, except we used pies!
  • When I lived in the Washington, D.C. area, math races were a stressful part of my day.
  • When I lived in upstate New York, my fifth-grade teachers got married.

But writing what you know is more than just including personal events in your story. The cumulation of your experiences shape how you see the world and influence your writing. As a result of my experiences, I think it’s important to see and to talk about physical differences—what someone looks like—but to recognize that this is only one way to identify yourself and others. Of equal importance is noticing internal differences. I hope that readers of The Secret Life of Jenny Liu are inspired to do both.

Thank you for having me as a guest, Pragmatic Mom! You are a valuable force in parenting, education and reading. (And, I LOVE that your Rule #3 is to help your kids to self-actualize.)

Jean Ramsden

Jean Ramsden is a writer, producer and educational consultant. She graduated from Cornell University and Harvard University, and lives in North Carolina with her husband and four children. Connect: @jean_ramsden

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2 thoughts on “Author Jean Ramsden Being True to Yourself”

  1. Ann says:
    October 27, 2014 at 3:06 pm

    Sounds like a book with a great message. I would love my daughter to read this. Not sure the best way to get kids reading but I try and set a good example by reading myself. I also take them to the library, bookstore, and we read together.

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    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 1, 2014 at 10:47 am

      Hi Ann,
      I think modeling reading is really important so kudos to you for doing that for your kids!! I know my kids love trips to the bookstore though I have to drag them to the library!

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