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7 Ways to Get Your Kid to Read

Posted on October 24, 2014May 15, 2024 by Pragmatic Mom

Please welcome my guest blogger today, the author F.T. Bradley who has great advice on how to get kids reading. At the end of the post, she is also hosting a GIVEAWAY with signed copies of her three spy chapter books!

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“I don’t like reading.” They’re not words you want to hear from your kiddo as a parent, especially if you love to read yourself. I have a reluctant reader at home. As an author of children’s books, I was a little stumped as to what to do. Over time, I learned what worked, what didn’t—by trying different things, and by reading more about kids who don’t like to read, and why.

Reluctant readers are often just burned out on reading. Think about it: how many books are assigned, especially as your kids get to the middle-school years? Not that those are bad books (often, they’re outstanding!), but they can be hard for struggling—or just disinterested readers—to love.

Still, reading is important for learning, brain development—as parents, we know this. So how do you get your reluctant reader to pick up a book? Here are some tips.

7 Ways to Get Your Kid to Read

  • Choice

Those assigned books can (unintentionally) make reading a chore. So start by taking your child to a bookstore or library, and let them pick whatever book strikes their fancy. If it’s non-fiction, a book on frogs, or a comic book—it doesn’t matter. The point is to get your kid to associate reading with choice. Controlling what you read for fun is important in relating books with entertainment.

  • Branch Out

Now that your child has read that choice book, whatever it is, it’s time to up the challenge. For every choice book, challenge him or her to read a book you pick together. It should still be a fun read, but one that perhaps has more pages, or is a little higher in reading level. Librarians or children’s booksellers can be great allies here—have your child explain what he/she likes, and these professionals can probably recommend the perfect book.

  • Hook ‘Em With a Series

Reading can be hard work, especially if it’s not your favorite activity. Try getting your kid to read a series or trilogy; the recurring characters and fictional world make reading a little less tasking for your reluctant reader. Don’t worry too much if your child is reading below their reading level for fun. Especially during those early middle-school years, kids sometimes prefer the simpler content of elementary level reading. Your goal is just to get your child to enjoy reading.

  • Pair with a Graphic Novel or Audio Book

Ready to up the challenge a little? Try pairing a classic novel with its graphic novel counterpart. These days, many classics like A Wrinkle in Time and The Graveyard Book have graphic novel versions, which are often easier on reluctant readers. Ask questions about the content: which version did your child like better, and why? For younger readers, try getting the audiobook version of a book as a read along. Younger kids often have trouble with phonics or intonation; hearing someone read the book aloud and following along in print does wonders for their reading and writing skills.

  • Pair With The Movie

These days, most children’s movies are based on books, especially for middle or teen readers. Have your child read the book before the movie comes out, and then compare. How was the movie different? Which did they like better? This is such a fun way to experience books as entertainment—you may even want to read along and go see the movie together.

  • Make it Social

Book aren’t just for curling up in a corner, as nice as that is. Show your child that reading can be a social event—check out book clubs and other events at your bookstore and library. Many libraries have themed events that are a lot of fun, and even include crafts.

If you have a competitive kid, consider Battle of the Books as a new challenge (if your school participates). If you’re too busy already to participate in community events, consider reading a book separately, but at the same pace. As you each finish a chapter, you can talk about the book, what you think is going to happen, etc.

  • Set The Example

When was the last time you read a good book? As parents, we can spend so much time in the children’s department of our bookstore or library, we forget to read ourselves. No matter what you say to your kid, they’ll learn most from your example. So read a book. Encourage your spouse or partner to do the same. Your child will pick up on your example and want to do the same.

Do you have a middle reader at home?? Enter this giveaway of all three hardcovers (signed!) of the Double Vision trilogy, a fun, adventurous spy series by F.T. Bradley. Good luck!

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Follow along with the Double Vision: The Alias Men blog tour:

Oct. 6-10: The Secret Files of Fairday Morrow features Double Vision: The Alias Men with a review, author interview, plus a GIVEAWAY..!

Oct. 13: Linc hangs out at the great Erik’s blog, This Kid Reviews Books. Linc talks about spy techniques he picked up on his Pandora missions. And there’s another GIVEAWAY…

Oct. 14: Double Vision: The Alias Men is released! Have a virtual party at the YA Sleuth blog…! And follow F.T. on Twitter @FTBradleyAuthor for more kid spy fun.

Oct. 16: F.T. Bradley gives you Five Ways to Bring MG into The Classroom at the Unleashing Readers blog, plus a GIVEAWAY.

Oct. 17: Linc is interviewed by Lizzy, Fairday, and Marcus over at The Secret Files of Fairday Morrow blog. A fun post!

Oct. 20: Buried in Books lets F.T. Bradley talk about the Double Vision trilogy…

Oct. 20: Also this day, the fabulous Ms. Yingling reviews Double Vision: The Alias Men on her blog for Marvelous MG Monday…

Oct. 21: Another favorite blog, YA Book Nerd, hosts F.T. Bradley and the Double Vision trilogy, plus a GIVEAWAY

Oct. 21: F.T. Bradley hangs out at Sleuths, Spies, and Alibis…

Oct. 24: F.T. Bradley gives tips for parents of reluctant readers, Seven Ways to Get Your Kid to Read, at Pragmatic Mom’s blog, plus a GIVEAWAY!

Oct. 25: At the Nerdy Book Club, find F.T. Bradley’s top 10 books for reluctant readers…

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24 thoughts on “7 Ways to Get Your Kid to Read”

  1. anne s. says:
    October 24, 2014 at 8:12 am

    frequent trips to the library and bookstore and making a cute,cozy reading area in the house are my strategies.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      October 25, 2014 at 1:58 pm

      Hi Anne,
      Those are two of my favorite strategies too. I love a specialized cozy book nook!!

      Reply
  2. Barbara Ann Mojica says:
    October 24, 2014 at 9:52 am

    Great suggestions, especially for the middle grade reluctant reader.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      October 25, 2014 at 1:59 pm

      Hi Barbara,
      I’m glad you liked the post!! I always want to help a middle grade reluctant readers as it feels like the last hurrah to get them reading.

      Reply
  3. Patricia Tilton says:
    October 24, 2014 at 10:41 pm

    My daughter loved being read to, love bookstores, meeting authors etc. But, getting her to read on her own was tough. If I read with her, I found success. It was a struggle to sit still by herself for so long and I used many strategies. Today she loves to read.

    Emma Walton Hamilton wrote a wonderful book, “Raising Bookworms.” I highly recommend it.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      October 25, 2014 at 2:01 pm

      Hi Patricia,
      I think your message is so important. I think it does take a lot of different strategies to get all kids to love reading but if you keep trying, it will eventually work! Thanks so much for sharing your experience!

      Reply
  4. Laura S. says:
    October 26, 2014 at 8:15 am

    I have a reluctant reader and appreciate F.T Bradley’s great suggestions. I would also add that, at least for my child, reading books with humor really help as well. She and I LOVE laughing together when we read together. And before she even realizes it, she’s having fun despite her dislike of reading!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 1, 2014 at 10:43 am

      Hi Laura,
      I totally agree that funny books help keeps kids reading!! I have a list I made of funny books for a boy reluctant reader that I know. I hope it helps your daughter too! http://www.pragmaticmom.com/2012/03/books-3rd-grade-boy-reluctant-reader-likes-funny-sports-books/

      Reply
  5. F.T. Bradley says:
    October 26, 2014 at 3:14 pm

    Thanks for commenting, everyone! And there were some good suggestions here I’ll add to my list…

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 1, 2014 at 10:44 am

      Thanks so much F. T. Bradley for your wonderful post!

      Reply
  6. Lynnette says:
    October 26, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    My boys were both reluctant readers. I talked with them about what interested them and then searched out books on those topics. Eventually we found success. My older son didn’t become an avid reader, but my younger son is. It really is just finding that first book that appeals to them and then following that up with more.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 1, 2014 at 10:45 am

      Hi Lynette,
      You are such a good mom to hunt down books that your boys want to read. I know that it takes time and patience to do that but I agree, it really does work eventually! What kinds of books did/do they like?

      Reply
  7. E.S. Ivy says:
    October 28, 2014 at 12:14 pm

    Spy books are a great choice for reluctant boy readers. Lots of other great ideas here as well! I’m especially a fan of not worrying too much about whether kids are reading something that’s too “easy.” Wants they get going, the will naturally progress.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 1, 2014 at 11:01 am

      Hi E.S. Ivy,
      I know that my son enjoys a good spy book! The action and suspense is great for drawing in the reader and cool gadgets help too!

      Reply
      1. E.S. Ivy says:
        November 1, 2014 at 6:07 pm

        Cool gadgets are definitely a big draw for my son!

        Reply
        1. Pragmatic Mom says:
          November 4, 2014 at 2:04 pm

          Hi E.S. Ivy,
          Mine too! Glad you include them in your books!

          Reply
  8. 1110cg says:
    October 28, 2014 at 3:07 pm

    Getting books they enjoy! Thanks for the great post!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 1, 2014 at 11:01 am

      Hi 1110cg,
      Yes! I think that is the key!

      Reply
  9. Bekki@abetterway2homeschool says:
    October 28, 2014 at 11:11 pm

    I love it! I also still read aloud to my youngest 4 kids (9-16 years). They love to be read to, even the 16 year old. I have always read exciting books aloud and I wait until we get to a climatic part. That’s where I always stop… “Leave them hanging!” That’s my motto!!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 1, 2014 at 11:05 am

      Hi Bekki,
      I love your “Leave Them Hanging” advice! That works really well with my son too though he begs and begs for me not to stop! My kids also enjoy being read too and my oldest is 14. I enjoy it myself too when an author reads to me. It’s a great pleasure in life!

      Reply
  10. Lisa Nelson says:
    October 30, 2014 at 3:48 am

    These are really fantastic tips! While the kids have to read what is assigned – and I remember from my school days – always not so fun. But also reading fun stuff, that they love – is very important.

    Thanks so much for this great post!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 1, 2014 at 11:11 am

      Hi Lisa,
      So glad you liked her post!!! Finding fun stuff to read is the key for kids thought that can take a bit of searching! And it’s always a bummer when you run out because you read the whole series or all the books the author wrote! That happens to us so we try to find substitutes but they are never exactly the same.

      Reply
  11. Susan Levy says:
    November 10, 2014 at 10:26 pm

    I love the ideas here. My son from the beginning has not been into reading on his own, but lives to listen to a story. I created early learning tools that use potty humor to engage my son in learning his letters and first words. Like so many of you said, I had to find what interested him and it just so happens to be poops and farts! I look forward to reading your books!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      November 12, 2014 at 9:26 am

      Hi Susan,
      I love that you created early learning tools for your son! I am going to read your website right now! Thanks so much!

      Reply

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