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Thinking and Stressing About College for My Oldest

Posted on July 22, 2014May 16, 2024 by Pragmatic Mom

Now that my oldest, Grasshopper and Sensei, is starting high school this September we have started thinking more concretely about college for her. She wants to go to art school, with Rhode Island School of Design (RISD) being a top choice.

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I did a little research to look into a private college counselor for her. My conclusion years ago on Private or Public School: Which Is Better? was that public school was right for us, but the addition of a private college counselor would ensure personalized attention when it came time to apply for college. But when I started talking to private college counselors, I quickly realized that:

  • Private college counselors might place kids at art schools but no one specializes in it.
  • $250/hour is roughly the going rate for a private college counselor. They also charge a flat fee ranging from $5000 to $7500 to work with your child over a number of years.
  • My daughter would need help with: finding the right classes to develop her art skills, developing her portfolio, and choosing a range of art schools to go to.
  • The most important element of her application is going to be her portfolio.

A private college counselor’s role is also that of a therapist; keeping everyone calm during this stressful process. My daughter might not want advice from me (though I have spent a lot of time researching on her behalf) but the same counsel from her personal college advisor would be palatable and perhaps even taken seriously!

My plan evolved into one of recruitment. If no private college counselors exist for art schools, then create one. My first thought was blogger Jeanette Nyberg of Artchoo! and Tiny Rotten Peanuts. She attended RISD and hangs with an arty crowd. She’s funny and great with kids. My daughter would LOVE her. And most of all, I would be able to talk to HER during this process and get my thoughts filtered down to my daughter.

Jeanette Nyberg, Artchoo! blogger

Step 1: Secure a Private College Counselor.

DONE!

Step 2: Pay for College.

529 Investment plan …

When my oldest was born, I was fortunate to have a CPA working on my taxes who also had a child a little older than mine. She had done all the research and steered me to the 529 plan then which was just in a nascent state.

As the years passed, the 529 plan became more widely available with many more options and my husband and I use this as the primary vehicle to pay for college for our three kids. The way it works is that the money invested can grow tax-free.

It’s always a good idea to first research your state’s 529 plans since sometimes there are tax incentives for residents. The idea for the funds — you can also invest the money yourself — is for the plan to invest more aggressively for growth when your child is young and more conservatively for preservation as your child nears college. If your child ends up not needing the money (athletic scholarship?!), you can pass the funds to your next child without penalty.

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This Friday on July 25th, I’ll be attending an event at the Children’s Museum in Easton which is a stop for the  U.Fund Dreams Tour.

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It’s from 9 am to 4 pm, so drop by any time! If you are in the area, I hope to see you there!

 

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I’ve partnered with Fidelity & MEFA for this post in support of the U.Fund Dreams Tour. As always, all thoughts and opinions are my own.

 

 

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16 thoughts on “Thinking and Stressing About College for My Oldest”

  1. Ann says:
    July 22, 2014 at 9:35 am

    How exciting! I went to RISD too so if you need a second opinion on anything…
    Not sure if they still do this but many art school applications also have art assignments. I remember taking at least a couple days off from school to get some of these done. Your daughter should also look at MassArt and Cooper Union in NYC which is free but of course hard to get into.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      July 23, 2014 at 12:42 pm

      Hi Ann,
      Yes, I remembered that! And yes, I would love to have your help with the porfolio selection in a few years. I had a school friend that went to Cooper Union; thanks for that heads up. He was an amazing artist and went there to study to be an architect.

      I think my daughter is going to take classes at Mass College of Art this fall to sharpen her drawing skills.

      Reply
  2. Jeanette Nyberg says:
    July 22, 2014 at 9:40 am

    Ha! I love that I am officially your Private College Counselor. Time to change my business cards…. and I always marvel at how organized and planned and proactive you are. Let’s get G and S into RISD!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      July 23, 2014 at 12:43 pm

      Hi Jeanette,
      Typically teen right? Now she’s saying she might want to see art schools in NYC … so we should steer her to School of Visual Arts and Cooper Union, you think? But I hope she gets into RISD and goes there! I love that school!

      Reply
  3. Faigie says:
    July 22, 2014 at 10:15 am

    I also want to go to RISD…to you think theres room for someone there in the 50 yr old crowd ? 🙂

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      July 23, 2014 at 12:44 pm

      Hi Faigie,
      Yes, let’s both go there too! I’m sure there are programs for us too! Extension classes perhaps?!

      Reply
  4. Roshni says:
    July 22, 2014 at 3:38 pm

    Wishing you all the very best about getting into the right college; I can quite understand how stressful it is in today’s world!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      July 23, 2014 at 12:44 pm

      Hi Roshni,
      Thanks so much!! I feel better having Jeanette at my side!

      Reply
  5. Jim Westcott says:
    July 23, 2014 at 1:56 am

    Wonderful post! My niece, recently graduated from Purchase’s art program. Purchase is just outside of NYC. She loved it there-good school. Anyway, I can see why you’d pick Jeanette Nyberg to work with your daughter. She’s freakin hilarious:) and seems to really know her stuff. Her site is refreshing. You’re daughter is lucky to have you in her corner (seriously) Surely she knows this too, because most likely, similar to my teenage son, (will be a Sophomore in September) she knows everything there is to know about living as a 21st. Century human being on this planet Earth:):)

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    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      July 23, 2014 at 12:46 pm

      Hi Jim,
      I feel really fortunate to have Jeanette as our college counselor! And I think it’s going to make the process much more enjoyable for all involved!!

      Thanks for the heads up on Purchase’s art program! My daughter is thinking about NYC now too!

      Reply
  6. maryanne @ mama smiles says:
    July 24, 2014 at 4:50 pm

    Love how you plan ahead! Our kids have (very small) 529 accounts. I am curious to learn what my kids will grow up to become.

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      August 12, 2014 at 8:55 am

      Hi MaryAnne,
      It’s great that you have started saving for college for them already!

      Reply
  7. Mrs.AOK says:
    July 27, 2014 at 9:26 am

    I honestly want to take a page… okay… maybe two or three out of your book! I love how you embrace your children’s education, and how you plan ahead. I want to make sure we are ready for college when it is time for our babies.
    At this point I’m thinking art school for my youngest daughter, if not something in agriculture.
    Best of luck!
    XO

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      August 12, 2014 at 8:58 am

      Hi Mrs.AOK,
      Thanks so much for your kind words! My oldest one wants to go to art school too!

      Reply
  8. Deceptively Educational says:
    August 3, 2014 at 9:47 pm

    We’re doing the 529 plan too. Thanks for sharing this at the After School Linky. Great advice here (as usual)!

    Reply
    1. Pragmatic Mom says:
      August 12, 2014 at 9:06 am

      Hi Deceptively Educational,
      I think you can’t go wrong with a 529 plan! It’s meant to help parents fund college and has tax breaks built in. Thanks so much!

      Reply

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